"Fighting fair means changing your weapons. Disagreement with dignity. It should result in building a bridge instead of burning one down. Remember, love is not a fight, but it is always worth fighting for."
"Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. If your mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules to "fight" by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs."
Mary's Notes:
Take it from me. Fighting fair is essential in every marriage. Let the past be in the past. The present brings enough trail.
