Storm those gates for Clara!

Happy Friday! Please take a moment and read this incredibly moving witness to life and storm those gates of heaven for Christy and Clara!

Thank you Kristin for sharing their story and allowing us this opportunity to pray and sacrifice for life.

Blessings to all, 

Mary

Links to Share...

I have been busy cleaning and cooking today preparing for company later this evening. So I thought I would share a few links I found this morning during my "blogging" time. I hope they inspire you as they have me.

Blessings, 

Mary

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"Confusion Among Catholics" @ Home Sweet Heart

"MailBag" @ Holy Experience

"Farm Fresh Style" @ Warm Pie, Happy Home

"Soup Buffet" @ These Things  (fabulous idea!)

"One Magazine, A Whole Month of Sewing" @ time-really-does-fly (so beautiful)

"Guerilla Parenting - Winning the culture war, Part 1" @ MommyLife

"Snack Food RoundUp and Super Bowl Party Ideas" @ Made by Melissa

"TWD Rewind: Quintuple Chocolate Brownies" @ a whisk and a spoon

Baked Garlic Fish...

I have never been particularly fond of fish. But, over the years as my weight has become a more serious issue, my desire to live more healthfully has made me rethink my relationship with these great swimmers. So I have been researching new fish recipes and this one so far has been the best.

The key is letting the fish marinade over night allowing the garlic to just soak into every tender bite. I added more onions for my husband who believes an onion can improve all things in life. The you add it to garlic and we have a winner.

Again, other than a little chopping, everything came together very simply. Paired with some organic wild rice and steamed vegetables you have a meal your waistline and heart will appreciate.

Bon Appetite!

Mary

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Baked Garlic Fish
recipe by Leanne Ely @ SavingDinner.com

Preassembled Ingredients:
1 pound white fish
4 cloves garlic, pressed
3 tablespoons olive oil
1 cup chopped onion
1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper

Cooking Instructions:
Rub the fish fillets with the crushed garlic, then place them in a shallow, non-reactive dish. Spoon the olive oil over the fish until they are coated. Place the onion on top of the fish. Cover the fish and refrigerate overnight to allow the fish to soak in the marinade.
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
If baking the fish, transfer it to a 9x13 inch baking dish along with the olive oil, garlic, and onion. Sprinkle the fish with the cayenne or white pepper. If you are grilling the fish, wrap the fish and oil, garlic, onion, and pepper in aluminum foil.
Bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes

Just Try...

"While I was feeling discouraged, someone mentioned Mother Teresa, and I remembered something she once said, "God doesn't require us to succeed; he only requires that you try."

Thanks to my friend Barbara for sharing this quote from Mother Theresa. Let's try to do "Something Big" with God, for God! Pray, fast, sacrifice and then do it again and again! God is counting on us! We cannot let Him or the millions of babies counting on us for their very lives to be disappointed in our efforts. 

Our Blessed Lady is with the President. Let us help her convert his heart!

Blessings, 

Mary

Let's do "Something Big"...

“Attempt something so big for God that it is sure to fail without Him.”

On this great feast of the conversion of St. Paul, I have spent some time today in prayer and reflection on this past week and it's significance. Then I heard the song "Something Big" by artist John Waller confirming what God had whispered in my heart this morning. We are called to do SOMETHING BIG for Christ. 

On Tuesday, we inaugurated the first African-American President of this great nation hopefully healing old racial divides. Barrack Obama's life is a great American story showing the promise that this country has to offer to all who wish to work hard to achieve their dreams. God has allowed this for a reason. 

Unfortunately, my joy is greatly tempered because of his policies and how he wishes to govern this country. This was glaringly obvious during his inaugural speech where he forgot to use the word "life". He has made his intentions clear with his promise to Planned Parenthood to sign the hideous F.O.C.A. act. This completely clouds anything I may feel about the historical significance of his presidency. 

Two days after he was sworn in, the National Mall was once again filled with people, this time supporting LIFE. What was so wonderful about this day for me was to see so many young people present. This is the generation that has survived abortion. Their mothers made the choice for LIFE, and praise God that they did. They chose to walk in faith not knowing their future but trusting in God's plan for their children's lives. 

Did anyone else notice that there were no counter protesters? There was no one screaming at me saying I was wrong and that I should keep my opinions to myself. Why was that? Because they think they have won the war. They take President Obama at his word and feel certain that he will sign F.O.C.A. and our right to protest will be gone, forever! The genocide will continue and we will be powerless to stop it. 

Well I am NOT powerless and I will do whatever I can to make my voice heard and pray that with God's help we can do something BIG, we can prevent this legislation from going through. In Him all things are possible, so why can't we prevent F.O.C.A. and overturn Roe V. Wade?

So let's do this BIG THING for Christ! Let's prevent this horrifying legislation and save millions of lives in the name of our Creator. Let's allow God to work through our prayers, fasting and sacrifice to defeat this evil. Click here to sign the F.O.C.A. petition. Call your congressman and senators asking them to vote against ANY pro-choice legislation that is brought forth, especially F.O.C.A. Consider offering holy hours and family rosaries for this cause. We need to STORM the Gates of Heaven unceasingly! 

Click here for pro-life prayers that can be offered during a Holy Hour For Life from the USCCB.

Click here for Pro-Life Novenas.

Click here for the Rosaries for Life.

Will it be easy? No way. Nothing that is worth achieving ever is. Ask St. Paul. He was beaten on a daily basis for his belief in one true God and yet he persevered, he never gave up, for he knew that the war was already won by Christ's death on the cross. Evil will never prevail, for Jesus has already paid the ultimate price. Be Big! Be Bold! Trust God and step out in faith! Fight the good fight and never give up!

Blessings, 

Mary

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"Something Big"
John Waller
“Attempt something so big for God that it is sure to fail without Him.” I’m not sure who first spoke these words, but they’ve never left me. I believe the desire to be a part of something greater than ourselves is built into the core of each one of us. That’s the reason I left Georgia to become the worship pastor of a church plant in south Denver called “Southlink.” I believe that this song will strike a chord with many visionary dreamers who are contemplating stepping out and doing something that only God can truly do through them. In his book, “Visioneering,” Andy Stanley said, “A divine vision done God’s way and in God’s timing is sure to succeed.”

I wanna see something I've not seen
Something so big
I wanna be a part of something great
Greater than me

It's time to dream big dreams
To see Your vision
Become reality
‘Cause it’s for You, by You, those who
Love You wanna do

Something so big
It’s destined to fail without You, Lord
It’s gonna fail without You, Lord
Something so great
It takes a miracle to do
We, Your children
Wanna do something big for You

We, yes, we are gonna sing a brand new song
Something so strong
We will be the sound that wakes the dawn
Something so loud

It’s time for breaking through
‘Cause there are no limits
For he who holds the truth
When it’s for You, and by You, and those who
Love You wanna do

Something bigger, something greater
For the glory of Your splendor
Something bigger, something greater
Tell the story of Your wondrous love
Your wondrous love
Those who love You wanna do

As long as we live, let us do something so big for You

© 2005 New Spring (ASCAP) / John Waller Publishing (ASCAP). All rights on behalf of John Waller Publishing (ASCAP) administered by New
Spring (ASCAP).

CrockPot LOVE ~ Resources

I hope you have enjoyed this past week of CrockPot LOVE! Not to worry, there are more recipes to share in the future. I wanted to let you know about some great resources, all of which are available at your local library.
"Fix-It and Forget-It Cookbook: Feasting with Your Slow Cooker" by Dawn J Ranck is my all-time favorite crockpot cookbook. The recipes are simple and flavorful. Best-Loved Slow Cooker Recipes by Tate Hunt has some fabulous chicken recipes as well as a sections with desserts and appetizers. Southern Living Slow-Cooker Cookbook by Jane E. Gentry is my husbands favorite crockpot cookbook. Lots of southern favorites including oxtails and ribs. It has my favorite red beans and rice recipe as well. There are also some fabulous recipes available at SavingDinner.Com. Leanne Ely is a genius in my humble opinion.

There are also many resources available online:A Year of CrockPotting
A Crock Cook
Crockpot Adventures

CrockPot LOVE ~ Classic Spaghetti

Today's CrockPot LOVE recreates your grandmothers spaghetti sauce without standing over the stove for five hours, stirring and stirring. Well, it's close enough. I love this recipe because it's filled with tons of veggies and comes together fairly quickly. I usually combine steps one and two since I use very lean beef without a lot of fat. I also let the crock pot go without the lid for the last hour and a half so that the sauce cooks down and thickens. I usually serve it with some whole grain spaghetti and a lovely side salad.

Bon Appetite!

Mary

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Classic Spaghetti

recipe from "Best-Loved Slow Cooker Recipes" by the Rival Crock-Pot

2 TBSP olive oil

2 onions, chopped

2 green or red bell peppers, sliced

2 stalks of celery, sliced

4 tsp minced garlic

3 pounds lean ground beef

2 carrots, diced

1 cup mushroom, sliced

1 can (28oz) tomato sauce

3 cups of water

1 can (28oz) of stewed tomatoes, undrained

2 TBSP minced parsley

1 TBSP dried oregano

1 TBSP sugar

2 tsp salt

2 tsp black pepper

1 pound dry spaghetti

Directions:

1. Heat oil in large skillet over medium-high heat until hot. Add onions, bell peppers, celery and garlic: cook and stir until tender. Transfer to crock-pot.

2. In same skillet, brown ground beef. Drain and discard fat.

3. Add beef, carrots, mushrooms, tomato sauce, water, tomatoes with juice, parsley, oregano, sugar, salt and black pepper to crock-pot. Cover and cook on LOW for 6-8 hours or HIGH for 3-5 hours, or until done.

4.Cook spaghetti according to package directions; drain. Serve sauce over cooked noodles.

March for Life - 2009

Jerry and Courtney march for the disabled, the elderly and those who have no voice.Our Lady leads the waySen. Sam Brownback, a true champion for lifeWhat we are fighting for! Please continue to pray for the defeat of F.O.C.A.

Why I March?

Today I will be on the National Mall to participate in the March for Life, a cause I hold very dear to my heart. Over the years I have been asked by many why? Why do I march? Why would I waste my time? No one is listening. What good does it do? Congress will just do whatever they want anyway. How could I , as a woman, believe that the government has any right to tell me what I can and cannot do with my body? What right do I have to impose my beliefs on someone else?

I live in the most wonderful country in the world. This week we witnessed history as the first African-American President was sworn into office, peacefully. There are no barriers here to anyone who wishes to work hard and succeed, no matter their race or gender. I have the right as a citizen of this great nation, to disagree with my president and know that I will not be thrown into prison for that dissent. Many have died to give me this right. I will not disrespect their sacrifice by not fully participating in the political process. I have a right to peacefully protest. In how many countries is this the reality today? 

Why do I march? I am called as a Christian to take care of those who cannot care for themselves. "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me."Mathew 25:40. Who speaks for the child that is being murdered by an abortion? Who speaks for the elderly and disabled whose right to live with dignity and love is being slowly and meticulously taken away?

I do! You do! We are called as a "universal" church to stand up to the injustice of it all. What right do I have to "impose" my views on someone else? Who is recognizing the right of the baby being aborted or the disabled person being starved to death? I am called to stand up for them.

I believe Fr. Corapi says it best:

"The front line and primary battle is going to be the fight for life: the dignity of every human life from the moment of conception to the last moment of natural life. If we lose that one, every other battle space will be compromised. If the government succeeds in establishing abortion as an inalienable “right”, then the elderly and sick will be next. It will then be a short and slippery step to the government deciding who lives and dies regardless of their inherent human dignity."

You see, my Courtney is one of the "sick" Father talks about. She is my hero. She has a right to live a full and complete life, from conception until a natural death. If we cannot defend the voices that are silenced in the womb, how can we expect to protect the ones who are already here? I will NOT be silent! My conscience will not allow it. 

I march because there is a silent genocide that has killed 50 million babies in the last 36 years. There are now states that have approved euthanasia and assisted suicide as a"right". No one has the right to decide these things but Our Lord, who gave us the right to live to begin with ."For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well." Psalm 139:13-14

So today I march. I will push the wheelchair of my disabled child from the Ellipse to the Supreme Court giving witness the dignity for her life and so many other who are unable to defend themselves. These are the least of my brothers.  I will, along with thousands of others, offer prayers along the way, mourning those souls lost in this great battle. I will march so that future generations may not have to. 

Please pray for the defeat of F.O.C.A. and the safety of all of us marching. 

Blessings, 

Mary

Barefoot Bloggers ~ Easy Sticky Buns

Today is Barefoot Bloggers Thursday and so instead of some CrockPot Love, we have the easiest and most delicious sticky buns I have ever had. No exaggeration! These are fantastic! Thanks Melissa @ Made by Melissa for a fabulous choice this week.
I made one big change and that was to use the leftover fresh blueberries I had in the fridge. They happen to be my husbands favorite fruit, so since he was home earlier this week, I made him a very happy boy with this wonderful breakfast treat.
I highly recommend this recipe. Of course it will require an extra 30 minutes on the treadmill, but it's so worth it!
Bon Appetite!Mary
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Easy Sticky Buns
recipe by Ina Garten
12 tablespoons (1 1/2 sticks) unsalted butter, at room temperature
1/3 cup light brown sugar, lightly packed
1/2 cup pecans, chopped in very large pieces
1 package (17.3 ounces/2 sheets) frozen puff pastry, defrosted for the filling
2 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted and cooled
2/3 cup light brown sugar, lightly packed
3 teaspoons ground cinnamon
1 cup raisins (I used fresh blueberries)

Preheat the oven to 400 degrees. Place a 12-cup standard muffin tin on a sheet pan lined with parchment paper.
In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, combine the 12 tablespoons butter and 1/3 cup brown sugar. Place 1 rounded tablespoon of the mixture in each of the 12 muffin cups. Distribute the pecans evenly among the 12 muffin cups on top of the butter and sugar mixture.
Lightly flour a wooden board or stone surface. Unfold one sheet of puff pastry with the folds going left to right. Brush the whole sheet with half of the melted butter. Leaving a 1-inch border on the puff pastry, sprinkle each sheet with 1/3 cup of the brown sugar, 1 1/2 teaspoons of the cinnamon, and 1/2 cup of the raisins. Starting with the end nearest you, roll the pastry up snugly like a jelly roll around the filling, finishing the roll with the seam side down.
Trim the ends of the roll about 1/2 inch and discard. Slice the roll in 6 equal pieces, each about 1 1/2 inches wide. Place each piece, spiral side up, in 6 of the muffin cups. Repeat with the second sheet of puff pastry to make 12 sticky buns.
Bake for 30 minutes, until the sticky buns are golden to dark brown on top and firm to the touch. Allow to cool for 5 minutes only, invert the buns onto the parchment paper (ease the filling and pecans out onto the buns with a spoon), and cool completely.

CrockPot LOVE ~ BBQ Chicken Supper

This BBQ Chicken Supper recipe has been a real winner over the years. I can change the flavor by whatever BBQ sauce I chose to use. A favorite in my house is Memphis BBQ sauce, which was used in the dish pictured above. I usually serve it with the traditional sides of beans and cole slaw. However, given the temperatures outside I opted for brown rice and steamed broccoli. The assembly is so quick and again there is the option of freezing it as a dinner kit before hand.

Bon Appetite!Mary
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Crock BBQ Chicken Supper
recipe by Leanne Ely @ SavingDinner.com

Preassembled Ingredients:
1 1/2 pounds skinless chicken thighs (or chicken breasts)
10 1/2 ounces bottled barbecue sauce, your favorite brand
1 sliced onion
1 green bell pepper, seeded, deribbed and chopped

Cooking Instructions:
Remove preassembled Crock Barbecue Chicken Supper from the freezer and defrost.
Pour chicken and sauce into slow cooker. Place foil wrapped corn on top of chicken.
Cover and cook on low for about 8

Letter to the 44th President...

Recently the USCCB rleased a letter to our new President. I hope he reads and reflects upon their wise words:

"Dear Mr. President-elect: I recently wrote to assure you of the prayers of the Catholic bishops of the United States for your service to our nation, and to outline issues of special concern to us as we seek to work with your Administration and the new Congress to serve the common good. I am writing today on a matter that could introduce significant negative and divisive factors into our national life, at a time when we need to come together to address the serious challenges facing our people. I expect that some want you to take executive action soon to reverse current policies against government-sponsored destruction of unborn human life. I urge you to consider that this could be a terrible mistake -- morally, politically, and in terms of advancing the solidarity and well-being of our nation’s people.
During the campaign, you promised as President to represent all the people and respect everyone’s moral and religious viewpoints. You also made several statements about abortion. On one occasion, when asked at what point a baby has human rights, you answered in effect that you do not have a definite answer. And you spoke often about a need to reduce abortions.

The Catholic Church teaches that each human being, at every moment of biological development from conception to natural death, has an inherent and fundamental right to life. We are committed not only to reducing abortion, but to making it unthinkable as an answer to unintended pregnancy."

Read More Here

The Potential in Each of Us...

Thanks to my dear friend Kathy V. for sending this wonderful video to me.
Just imagine if his mother had made a different choice? Where would we be today?
VOTE LIFE! DEFEAT F.O.C.A.!

CrockPot LOVE ~ Taco Soup

There are variations of this recipe everywhere you turn, but this is my family's favorite. You can always count on Paula for some delicious vittles. It's great with tortilla chips crunched on the bottom or top. We have also used corn chips as well. If you want to lower the fat content, you can use ground turkey or ground chicken. Both are yummy.

It's a pretty quick assembly and if you want to make a dinner kit out of it, simply do step 1, place it in a gallon freezer bag and thaw when ready. The rest of the ingredients come out of the pantry.

Bon Appetite!

Mary

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Taco Soup

recipe by Paula Deen

2 pounds ground beef
2 cups diced onions
2 (15 1/2-ounce) cans pinto beans
1 (15 1/2-ounce) can pink kidney beans
1 (15 1/4-ounce) can whole kernel corn, drained
1 (14 1/2-ounce) can Mexican-style stewed tomatoes
1 (14 1/2-ounce) can diced tomatoes
1 (14 1/2-ounce) can tomatoes with chiles
2 (4 1/2-ounce) cans diced green chiles
1 (4.6-ounce) can black olives, drained and sliced, optional
1/2 cup green olives, sliced, optional
1 (1 1/4-ounce) package taco seasoning mix
1 (1-ounce) package ranch salad dressing mix
Corn chips, for serving
Sour cream, for garnish
Grated cheese, for garnish
Chopped green onions, for garnish
Pickled jalapenos, for garnish

Directions:
1. Brown the ground beef and onions in a large skillet; drain the excess fat, then transfer the browned beef and onions to a large slow cooker or a stockpot.

2. Add the beans, corn, tomatoes, green chiles, black olives, green olives, taco seasoning, and ranch dressing mix, and cook in a slow cooker on low for 6 to 8 hours or simmer over low heat for about 1 hour in a pot on the stove.

3. To serve, place a few corn chips in each bowl and ladle soup over them. Top with sour cream, cheese, green onions and jalapenos.

CrockPot LOVE! ~ Split Pea Soup

It has been mighty cold here in Northern VA the past several days and thankfully the pace of life has slowed a bit. The city is quiet and everyone is hunkered down for the next four days of Inaugural events.

Of course in my house, we are preparing for Thursday's March for Life. This will be the first time in over 5 years that Courtney will "marching". She has been too ill in recent years to attend. So God willing, we will go and have our voices heard. This will be the first time ever for my husband. It will be interesting to see what he thinks of it all.

So, with a busy schedule ahead, this week the theme in my kitchen is CrockPot LOVE Baby! This will streamline prep time as well as insure that there is something yummy and warm when supper time roles around. It's also very easy on your wallet.

Over the next several days I will be sharing some of our family's favorites. I would love to know what some of yours are, so please feel free to share in the comments section. Consider it a crock pot recipe exchange!

Start your cockpots...here we go. The first recipe is for a vegetarian version of Split Pea Soup. I froze this dinner kit ahead of time and then thawed it last night to prepare today. Dinner kits are part of my "Frugality in the Freezer" cooking philosophy, which I will cover much more thoroughly in a future post.

With Lent fast approaching, I am always looking for hearty veggies meals. This one fits the bill.

Bon Appetite!

Mary

PS. For more crock pot inspirations check out Stephanie's sight A Year Of CrockPotting

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Split Pea Soup

recipe by Leanne Ely at Saving Dinner.com

2 cups water

1 (14.5 oz) can low sodium vegetable
broth
1/2 cup chopped onion
1/2 cup celery, chopped
1 cup grated carrot
1/8 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce
1 clove garlic, pressed
Salt and pepper to taste

Place in sealed gallon freezer bag and label. Lay flat to freeze.

At time of cooking add these ingredients:
1 cup potatoes, peeled and diced
1/2 pound split peas

Cooking Instructions:
Remove preassembled Crock Pot Split Pea Soup from the
freezer and defrost.
Peel and dice potato Add split peas and potatoes into the
slow cooker.
Add the contents of the bag to the slow cooker. Cover and
cook on low for 6 - 8 hours.
Serving Suggestions` Serve with a big green salad and whole grain rolls

Sanctity of Life...

Thank You Mr. President. You have spent eight years defending the defenseless and protecting this great nation from further harm. Well done and God Speed to you and your family.

Blessings, 

Mary

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FULL TEXT of 

President Bush Proclamation of Sanctity of Life Day - January 18
January 16, 2009 (LifeSiteNews.com) – The following is the full text of President Bush’s proclamation of National Sanctity of Life Day:

All human life is a gift from our Creator that is sacred, unique, and worthy of protection. On National Sanctity of Human Life Day, our country recognizes that each person, including every person waiting to be born, has a special place and purpose in this world. We also underscore our dedication to heeding this message of conscience by speaking up for the weak and voiceless among us.

The most basic duty of government is to protect the life of the innocent. My Administration has been committed to building a culture of life by vigorously promoting adoption and parental notification laws, opposing Federal funding for abortions overseas, encouraging teen abstinence, and funding crisis pregnancy programs. In 2002, I was honored to sign into law the Born-Alive Infants Protection Act, which extends legal protection to children who survive an abortion attempt. I signed legislation in 2003 to ban the cruel practice of partial birth abortion, and that law represents our commitment to building a culture of life in America. Also, I was proud to sign the Unborn Victims of Violence Act of 2004, which allows authorities to charge a person who causes death or injury to a child in the womb with a separate offense in addition to any charges relating to the mother.

America is a caring Nation, and our values should guide us as we harness the gifts of science. In our zeal for new treatments and cures, we must never abandon our fundamental morals. We can achieve the great breakthroughs we all seek with reverence for the gift of life.

The sanctity of life is written in the hearts of all men and women. On this day and throughout the year, we aspire to build a society in which every child is welcome in life and protected in law. We also encourage more of our fellow Americans to join our just and noble cause. History tells us that with a cause rooted in our deepest principles and appealing to the best instincts of our citizens, we will prevail.

NOW, THEREFORE, I, GEORGE W. BUSH, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim January 18, 2009, as National Sanctity of Human Life Day. I call upon all Americans to recognize this day with appropriate ceremonies and to underscore our commitment to respecting and protecting the life and dignity of every human being.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this fifteenth day of January, in the year of our Lord two thousand nine, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-third.
GEORGE W. BUSH

Thoughts for the Day...

I have not blogged much in the past week or so. I have been busy revising and re-writing the first two chapters of my novel for a writing contest. This exercise has shown me that we never stop learning. I want to be the best writer I can be and in order to do that I have to swallow my pride and keep plugging away. I have so much to learn. Eventually, if I don't give up, I will succeed in my goal. The following quotes have inspired me this week and I hope they speak to you as well.

"Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish."

John Quincy Adams

"Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it."

Lou Holtz

No matter what your dream is, don't give up. Keep going. God-willing, you will climb that mountain and reach the summit. Anticipate the view...wondrous...I can't wait to get there! Come join me!
Blessings,
Mary

Audrey Caroline's Legacy Continues...

I have written about this precious child before. Angie @ Bring the Rain has inspired so many through her honesty and great love of the Lord. She has poured herself out before the King and been blessed. This has not taken away her grief, but inspired her to share her journey with millions of people in hopes of bring them closer to our Creator.

The Mourning and the Dancing is her most recent post and I was so moved by it, I knew I needed to share it with you. As I watch her hold her precious daughter inspecting every inch of this wonderful creation knowing that God granted her only hours to hold and physically love this child, she smiles that sad mother's smile that we all know. The one that says to the world "My heart is breaking, but I will keep going because I have to."

It is awesome to see the power this mother's love, to see her eyes shine for the miracle she holds gently in her arms. And then she offers her back to God, for Audrey belongs to Him. My heart breaks watching the video. Audrey continues to love her parents and three older sisters each and every day. Her work evangelizing the love of Christ, is just starting. Can't you just see her dancing through the heavens? I can.

May God continue to bless Todd, Angie and their daughters, all four of them. May you be blessed by getting to know the wonderful gift God gave to this family. Now go hug your children, for they are precious in God's sight.
Blessings,
Mary


Sweet Audrey-Girl from angie smith on Vimeo.

Letting Go...Again

We just dropped Jonathan off with his ride back to school. It was different this time, more difficult for me than in August. God has been really pushing me to trust in His provisions for Jonathan. He has been speaking deep in my heart to cut the apron strings completely and give my son over to Him. I have to say, I am struggling with this.

J hit some bumps in the road his first semester as all freshmen are sure to do. So he was ready to come home at Christmas and be surrounded by the familiar.

We enjoyed the holidays together talking and laughing about all his adventures. He sought some direction from our pastor with some thing that were burdening his heart and we prayed very specifically about others. I was feeling very positive about his return to school as was he.

Then we had to say goodbye again and I just didn't want to let him go. I wanted him to stay, where I knew he would be OK. But then, that's not what God or J needed me to do. Jonathan was standing there, with a wide grin and a light heart ready to begin the next adventure in his life. I knew I had to walk away. So with tears in my eyes, I let him go again, my heart breaking as he drove away.

I know that he will do well and will succeed at anything he sets his mind to. I hope he follows the path God places upon his heart. What will I do to ease my mind and heart through yet another transition in life? I will be praying for him everyday and I will be ready to listen whenever he needs to talk. For young men, that's not very often, so I need to be ready when he is. This is the part no one tells you about. This emptiness in the pit of your stomach or the sadness in your heart. God needing you to walk away and trust. So, cutting the apron strings completely this time, with a prayer to Jonathan's guardian angel, I will let go...and let God lead him where he needs to be. I know that he is not alone in this journey and neither am I.

Blessings, 

Mary

Barefoot Bloggers ~ Banana Sour Cream Pancakes

Karen @ Something Sweet By Karen chose today's Barefoot Bloggers recipe. We haven't had too many breakfast recipes yet, so this was a nice change. Very easy recipe, not complicated at all which I appreciated right after the holidays.

These pancakes are fantastic. They are light and fluffy. The lemon zest and vanilla really add flavor and depth. I was not a fan of the banana's though. I know craziness. I love bananas, but not in my pancakes I have to say. I made a few without them inside and they were delish! If your looking for more whole grains, you can substitute 3/4 cup whole wheat flour for 3/4 cup of regular flour.

My husband however loved them so much, he spread peanut butter on top instead of syrup and was a very happy boy! He and my son cleaned me out, so I had to take a picture of the cookbook instead of actual pancakes! Next time, I will take pictures first.

I am never disappointed in what Ina comes up with. Someone in my family is always happy with the results.

If you want more info on how to be a part of such a fantastic group of bakers, check out Barefoot Bloggers. You'll be glad you did.
Bon Appetite!Mary
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Recipe from Ina Garten Barefoot Contessa Family Style
Serves:12 pancakes

1 1/2 cups flour
3 tablespoons sugar
2 teaspoons baking powder
1 1/2 teaspoons kosher salt
1/2 cup sour cream
3/4 cup plus 1 tablespoon milk
2 extra-large eggs
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1 teaspoon grated lemon zest
Unsalted butter
2 ripe bananas, diced, plus extra for serving
Pure maple syrup
Sift together the flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt. In a separate bowl, whisk together the sour cream, milk, eggs, vanilla, and lemon zest. Add the wet ingredients to the dry ones, mixing only until combined.
Melt 1 tablespoon of butter in a large skillet over medium-low heat until it bubbles. Ladle the pancake batter into the pan to make 3 or 4 pancakes. Distribute a rounded tablespoon of bananas on each pancake. Cook for 2 to 3 minutes, until bubbles appear on top and the underside is nicely browned. Flip the pancakes and then cook for another minute until browned. Wipe out the pan with a paper towel, add more butter to the pan, and continue cooking pancakes until all the batter is used. Serve with sliced bananas, butter and maple syrup.

May He Rest In Peace...

Fr. Neuhaus was a tremendous theologian and writer. He challenged me to "step it up" when it came to my knowledge of the faith. He will be missed.

Richard John Neuhaus, 1936–2009 @ First Things

Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace.

Amen.

Inspiration for 2009...

"You Push. I'll Pull" @ the National Catholic Register is a must read! Thank Mr.Vander Woude for continuing to evangalize us even in death.
Blessings,
Mary

The Closet...

"He replied, "Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you."
Matthew 17:20

Yesterday I spent the day cleaning out closets. I know, a thrill a minute, such excitement! WooHoo! This was not a chore I was looking forward to, believe me. As I was emptying them, I was stunned that I had let things get this bad. I had not been paying attention to what was going where.  As I worked, organizing piles of mittens, shoes, sweaters, coats, etc., my mind wandered and I started thinking about how closets are a great metaphor for our interior  life. 

Now, I am no spiritual genius. I am as big a sinner as anyone else, so please don't think I know more than you. I strive each day to do my best, to be the woman God is calling me to be. However, there is many a day when I just want to close my closet door and not let ANYONE see what's going on on the inside. 

It's filled with chaos. Nothing is in it's proper place. I have chosen to just throw things in there and shut the door as fast as I can so I don't have to look at all the clutter and confusion. Then when I need something, I open it up as carefully as I can to avoid the avalanche of stuff coming at me. 

Isn't this what it feels like when we are disordered in our prayer life? When we have strayed from our conversations with God? This is what it feels like to me. I put one foot in front of the other and I trudge through thinking I can do it all. Then a crisis or challenging situation comes along and the closet door bursts open spilling all that insanity out and you stand there stunned not knowing what to do next. 

I need to retrieve my soul out of the mess. I need to excavate, restore the order, dust and wipe out all the sin, so I can put things back in the right way. I can only do that if I am in conversation with God. He is my restorer! He is my peace! He is the Great Re-Organizer!

We have to be brave and actually open the closet door, even if that means we will be drowning in junk. Have faith in God to walk you though it. You can't fix something if you can't see it. This starts with Confession. The sacrament is so powerful, and it's readily available for all of us. It will restore grace and peacefulness to your lives. It's like hauling out a big bag of trash or donating to Good Will. It's gone, forever, not to return.

We need to pray for perseverance and constant guidance to make sure we are "right with God". That we aren't letting the junk of unforgiveness, gluttony, pride or anything else build up so much, that we can't open that door anymore without getting clobbered.

We need to make good choices about what to put in there, where it goes and why? You want it to be as functional as possible or else it's not doing anyone any good. It's just more clutter.

This is what God is calling us to do in our daily walk with him. To throw open that closet door, shine His light into the deepest part and restore all things to order and peace. 

Who knew that cleaning out the closets would teach me something about prayer and perseverance?  I will never think of closets the same way again! What's in your closet?

Blessings, 

Mary

Disability VS Ability

Barbara sent this video out today and I am just blown away by it. As a mother of a profoundly disabled child, I know that God does not make mistakes. He allows things to happen to bring glory and honor to Him! What an inspiration this young man is! I pray his message of perseverance and love spreads like wildfire!
Blessings,
Mary
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Beautiful...

I had tears rolling down my eyes as I read this wonderful post from Ann @ Holy Experience. So beautiful are these words and filled with such love. What a gift God has given Ann to convey what lies deep in a mother's heart.
I completely understand how she feels, for those days have past for me. I do miss them. Having a little body curled next to you, snuggled in for the great adventure. So many nights wandering with Christopher Robin and Winnie the Pooh or laughing with Mrs. Piggle Wiggle as she handed out her special instructions. I am blessed to still have a few opportunities for moments like this with my nieces and nephews and even on occasion with Court. For that, I am so thankful!
Blessings,
Mary

Where I am...

This is my picture thought of the day...

I know, lots to do. Thank goodness God will be by my side to give me strength and fortitude. Praise Him in all things!

Coming Out of the Darkness...

"I can do all things in Him who strengthens me"
Phil 4:13

As the New Year begins, I am struggling with the pace of life. This is a recurring complaint for me, I know. I was hoping to slow things down a bit, get organized, make a healthy eating plan, a realistic exercise schedule and de-clutter. I wanted to breathe for a moment and gather my thoughts.
I feel choked and my thinking is clouded these days trying to keep up with all I have to do. The year just started, how am I already behind schedule? Why do I do this to myself? I realized that my mindset has to change if I am to be successful in reaching any of my New Years Goals/Resolutions. I have to let go of my perfectionism and let God heal what is hurting.
I was at Mass this morning and came across today's scripture meditation in The Word Among Us. It was all so clear then. I have been fumbling around in the dark, stubbing my toe and running into things. I have gotten used to living like this. But I am tired and weary. I need sunshine. I need to be in God's light. So I will take a moment this afternoon, stop and plan for success.
Whatever ails me, God can overcome. If it's my eating habits or lack of exercise, he will correct what is in my heart, so I have the strength to make the better choice. I must continue to take advantage of the sacraments He provides for me, Confession and the Eucharist. He will help me come out of the dark and into His light!
Blessings,
Mary
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Meditation: Matthew 4:12-17,23-25
It is amazing how we can become adjusted to the dark. Whether it’s the gradual shift from evening to nighttime or the way we grope around when we first enter an unlit room, we gradually become accustomed to the darkness and find some way to keep functioning.

We accept the limitations of the darkness and muddle through the best we can.

What a powerful metaphor for the Sacrament of Reconciliation! Long-standing or repeated sin can create a gathering darkness in our hearts that keeps us stumbling through life, muddling through the best we can. But this isn’t God’s desire for us. Through Confession, he invites us to step out of that darkness and into his glorious light.

We may think that we are doing okay in the darkness because we are accustomed to it. We have learned how to cope with it, and our lives seem to go on unhindered. So why bother dredging up the sin? Why bother trying to change? Because life is so much easier in the light. Because staying in the darkness limits our freedom and places a heavy shroud over our relationship with God. Just as we would be foolish to choose the unending darkness of night or an unlit room, we would not want to live in the guilt and shame of sin.

But there’s more to the Sacrament of Reconciliation than simply receiving God’s forgiveness. Confession also opens us to his healing power. Whatever our “sickness” is—whatever mind-sets we have that keep us distant from the Lord—Jesus wants to heal us, just as he healed the physical sicknesses of those who came to him. Scripture calls these mind-sets strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:4). In fact, there is a strong link between being forgiven for individual sins and seeing these sinful strongholds weakened or destroyed.

The good news is that the kingdom of heaven is at hand! It is there for anyone who steps out of the darkness of sin and into the light of God’s love and mercy. And it all begins with a few simple words: “Bless me, Father, for I have sinned…”

“Holy Spirit, give me a soft heart that is ready to repent and to know the outpouring of mercy that you have for me.”

Ah...that was the life...

I remember this time in my life well. Going to the local library and carrying home tote bags filled with books. Where have those days gone? Thanks MM, for passing it on.

"I Wish I could Read Like A Girl" by Michelle Slatalla

Still Contemplating?

If you are still contemplating your New Year's resolutions/goals, below are a few links that may help and inspire you in the process.

Right now, I am creating/writing a personal mission statement for the year to keep me focused and moving forward. There is much work to be done, so let's get to it! 

Happy New year!

Mary

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The following links address mind, body and spirit. I am always fascinated at how others determine their goals and aspirations. Be inspired!

How to Eat Differently This Year @ Holy Experience

How to get the Important stuff in a Day @ Holy Experience

10 Questions for 2009 @ Faith and Family Live

Pope Says to not be Afraid of New Year @ A Catholic Mom Climbing the Pillars

20 Questions for Planning New Years Goals @ Simple Mom

8 things I learned in 2008 @ Conversion Diary

Thoughts on New years Resolutions ~ Part One @ Conversion Diary

My New Years Resolutions ~ Part 2 @ Conversion Diary

Inspiration for 2009...

"What if I allow myself to put the outcome in God's hands and just live intensely in the present, absorbing and embracing life as it happens?"

Emilie Lemmons

For more read Remembering Emilie

Lessons and Blessings...

So the New Year has begun bringing with it unknown possibility. It's exciting and terrifying all at the same time. I have spent the last week doing some serious internal excavation wanting to take full advantage of this new beginning. I have learned many things this past year and God has blessed me and my family abundantly.

Life moves quickly whether I wish it too or not. It's all about relationship, with God and those He placed in my life to love and care for.

*I learned that in order to have the strength, perseverance and courage to face whatever God may have in store for me and my family, I need to be in constant conversation with Him. I need to spend dedicated time in communion with Him each and everyday. Without that I have no direction or plan to get where God is leading me to be.

* I am blessed to be loved unconditionally by my God. He wants me to be content and happy with the vocation He has directed me to. He also challenges me not be complacent or lazy with whatever work He has asked me to do. I am sorry to say that I disappoint Him pretty consistently, and yet He loves me still. I am in awe of His "agape" love.

*I learned that my family must always be my first priority, after my relationship with God. I am a wife and mother. These jobs are never ending. They change with each season of life. I am learning that these changes are sometimes fraught with worry and difficulty. God is asking me to trust Him more completely than ever before.

*I am blessed with a husband who is my path to sanctification. He also wishes me to reach every personal goal or dream I have ever had. I know that this is a wonderful blessing, not to be taken for granted, ever. I am to love my husband and care for his soul, his dreams and aspirations with the same ferocity that he supports me. As parents, we are to work together to help our son achieve all God has called him to be and to care for our daughter with as much love as our Blessed Mother gave her Son, Jesus. We don't have all the answers, but God does. Pray and Trust!

*I have learned that we do not walk this earth alone. We are part of a larger community. We are to be Christ to all those we meet, no matter how arduous that task may be. You never know if the one word or act of kindness you offer a stranger could be the only love they receive all day. Kindness is a wonderful virus, pass it on!

*I am blessed to be surrounded by a "spiritual sisterhood". These woman sustain me with prayer and I them. No prayer request is too small, too inconsequential. There are no little prayers! Prayer is what sustains us body, mind and spirit. Sometimes, we actually get to visit in person as well! God is good!

*I have learned that nothing in life comes without a price. Writing is hard work. Harder than I ever thought possible. It brings me to my knees some days, literally. Perseverance is the theme of night and day. I shall keep moving forward, keep writing. I will strive to do my best and to keep studying my craft. Learning is a life long adventure, so let's go!

*I am blessed to have the opportunity to "reach" out to the world and hopefully encourage those who read this blog to keep going, not give up. This to shall pass, it just might take awhile!

*I have learned that I only get one body, so I had better take good care of it. Fortitude is the name of the game. Doritos and other crunchy salty things are just not worth the damage they do. Moderation is key!

* I am blessed to be alive in the time that God has ordained for me. Obviously, He thinks I can do it. His grace is sufficient. I pray the self-confidence will come.

Passionate Perseverance is the name of the game for 2009! I hope that this New Year is filled with love, joy and many blessings for you and your family. May you always walk toward Christ. He is waiting with open arms. Happy New Year!
Love,Mary

Rest in Peace...

Please pray for the repose of the soul of Fr. Michael Kelly who was killed yesterday.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord.
And let perpetual light shine upon him.
May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, rest in peace.
Amen.

The Solemnity of the Holy Mother of God

"The LORD bless you and keep you;

the LORD make his face shine upon you
and be gracious to you;
the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace."
Numbers 6: 24-26

Happy New Year!

This morning at Mass I read this beautiful meditation after Communion. I am so encouraged and excited to see the adventure of the New Year unfold and to see what the Lord has in store for me and my family. Happy New Year!

It comes from the Word Among Us:

Meditation: Numbers 6:22-27

Mary, Mother of God. The Lord bless you and keep you! (Numbers 6:24).

For many of us, the beginning of a new year means making a list of resolutions. But did you know that God also has a New Year’s resolution? His resolution is to bless you! His resolution is to transform your life as you embrace his vision for you.

We spend so much of our Christian lives thinking about what we are supposed to do for God. But what about all the things that God intends to do for us? And what better example of the generosity and kindness of God can we have for this disposition than the Virgin Mary? Before she was even conceived, Mary was marked out by God to be the mother of his Son. From the moment of her conception, the Lord blessed her and kept her, preserving her from the stain of original sin. She did nothing to earn such a blessing. It was bestowed upon her by a loving, generous God.

What about you? Are you spending today thinking only of the ways you are going to change your life? Don’t limit yourself! Don’t limit God! He sees you as precious and unique. He rejoices over you and wants the best for you in all things. He is determined to stand up for you and intervene in your life. Perhaps today, as a new year begins, you can take some time to recall all the ways God has blessed you in the past and then tell him that you want to receive his gifts this year as well.

No matter what you face this year, trust that God can give you his peace. Believe that his face is always shining on you. Then when challenges arise, just turn your face to him, and you will know his strength and his presence. God has an amazing year in store for you! So be like Mary, and stay close to him. Let nothing block his flow of blessings!

“Father, I praise you for your faithfulness and your love, for they are my strength. Help me take hold of your vision for my life.”